Mutuality: Defining

For LL in the UK

The above quotation is quite pertinent to the way you and I lead our lives. If you prescribe what you want from life ahead of achieving it then you are limiting yourself. Better to keep your mind and options open like I have. We all have ambitions LL, but should never be too single-minded about them.

You had options in the past and indeed over the years but decided I guess, on what you thought was the 'safe' way forward. Sadly for you it has proved to be both a rut and boring. I don't rely on my own perception for that view but on the view of several mutual friends, all female.

Even when I knew you I never closed my mind to what might lay in the future. I never defined in my own mind any particular aim...be it in life, love or business. I allowed things to evolve.

I have lived my life fully LL. You have existed in yours. That need not have been.

Turning to the photos in this blog which are all black and white - my preferred medium - you will note that often some are not as sharp or in focus as others. This is due to two things. One, I use different cameras in different situations and two, nearly all are enlarged for the blog.

Moving on to the photos below....I am, in the main, just showing locations and years. You have seen all of these woman before, but in different shots. I will continue to post these until I lose my marbles as a constant reminder to you of my life against yours.

After you cheated on me, or at least when you found yourself able to tell me you asked me to remain as your friend. How you believed that could be possible after what you did LL beats me. I guess it was your selfishness. Wanting you new man and trying to hold onto to me. Either that or you must have taken me for some kind of fool. Either way it was your mistake acknowledged in early 2006 by yourself. I gave you plenty of opportunities to stay, but your judgement was flawed as it has been throughout your adult life. Shame really as I was once very, very fond of you.

On the minus side there is of course the matter of the jewelry. I bet you thought I had forgotten it after nearly seventeen years - I haven't. My lawyer in the UK will 'swoop' when you are least expecting it...or you could just return the items. I will even provide you with an address.

You defined your life and its limits. I allowed mine to flow without 'definition' and it has taken me all sorts of places, a few of which appear below.